Sudden Summer Slam


I am waiting for things to start slowing down again. Grayson has been going to Vacation Bible School this week and things have been a little bit hectic. I thought it would be a good experience for him, and he’s had a lot of fun. Unfortunately, when I picked him up today and asked the teacher how he was she informed me that he BIT another little boy. And it was unprovoked. And it resulted in a hitting/kicking fight. He has a much-deserved bruise on his cheek from the incident. I walked out of the chapel feeling so humiliated. I know kids will be kids, but why MY kid? Is this a taste of what his first year at school will be like? Ugh! Grayson and I had a chat about biting, but nothing seems to get through. Tomorrow morning I will tell the teacher to call me if he acts up and I will come get him early.

Next week we get to catch our breath for a bit, but the following week will once again be a crazy one. British soccer camp begins for Grayson. Luckily for him (or maybe not) I will be staying during his soccer camps to keep my eye on him. Most importantly of all, though, my adorable almost 10-year-old step daughter will be getting here to stay with us for the summer. I’ve worked hard getting her room ready for her and I think it’s just the cutest ever. I hope she likes it too.

Cute little girl's room Vintage painted vanity

I’ve also been working on a little something for myself…well, I guess I’ll allow my husband to enjoy it too. Some may just call it a porch, but I call it my backyard living room. It isn’t finished yet. I have this voice in my head that keeps repeating “Must have more flowers”. I guess an addiction to beautiful flowers isn’t a bad thing, right? Hey, I finally have a yard after three years in an apartment, so I’ve earned it. If you ask me I think I’ve earned three years worth of flowers but my husband, or his wallet rather, would probably disagree. So, I am filling a pot or two (or three) here and there until our outside retreat is complete.

backyard living room outdoor living space Fuschia hanging basket Summer Beauty Acanthus Acanthus chickadee chickadee

Even the birds seem happier now that our backyard has some colorful plants and flowers. This summer I am also venturing into art for outdoors. I have the supplies and I hope to paint my first piece for my own backyard soon, so stay tuned in. I know I’ve been a slacker with posting lately. I’m doing my best to get us all settled here in Texas. I hope everyone else’s summer has gotten off to a nice start.

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My Heart to Yours


I was asked by a woman who purchased one of my paintings if I would also donate a painting for a benefit for a 5-year-old little girl who is about to undergo heart surgery next month. I jumped at the chance. I worked all last weekend creating something so cool and unique for the benefit.

My Heart to yours close up color IMG_3142

Be sure to check out my facebook page over there on the right- Like and Share with your friends! If you want something similar please let me know. Also, if you’re a crafty crafter yourself and would like to donate let me know and I will put you into contact with the right people.

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Don’t you want it? It’s FREE!


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Today’s post is going to be a little bit different from the norm, a little bit political, but I promise I won’t make this a habit. Obamacare is something that has been on my mind for quite a while because we, as a military family, have very similar healthcare. Our healthcare is sub par at best. I know that just because we are a military family does not mean we are entitled to healthcare, so I don’t want anyone thinking I do. We are fortunate for what we get, but think it is important for people to hear an opinion on government healthcare, from someone who actually has government healthcare.

My dad forwarded me an email this morning that got my wheels turning:

WANT A FREE HOUSE?

I was in my neighborhood restaurant this morning and was seated behind a group of jubilant individuals celebrating the coming implementation of the health care bill. I could not finish my breakfast. This is what ensued: They were a diverse group of several races and both sexes. I heard a young man exclaim, “Isn’t Obama like Jesus Christ? I mean, after all, he is healing the sick.”

A young woman enthusiastically proclaimed, “Yeah, and he does it for free. I cannot believe anyone would think that a free market wouldn’t work for health care.”

Another said, “The stupid Republicans want us all to starve to death so they can inherit all of the power. Obama should be made a Saint for what he did for those of us less fortunate.”

At this, I had more than enough. I arose from my seat, mustering all the restraint I could find, and approached their table. “Please excuse me; may I impose upon you for one moment?”

They smiled and welcomed me to the conversation. I stood at the end of their table, smiled as best I could and began an experiment.

“I would like to give one of you my house. It will cost you no money and I will pay all of the expenses and taxes for as long as you live there. Anyone interested?”

They looked at each other in astonishment. “Why would you do something like that?” asked a young man, “There isn’t anything for free in this world.” They began to laugh at me, as they did not realize this man had just made my point.

“I am serious, I will give you my house for free, no money whatsoever. Anyone interested?”

In unison, a resounding “Yeah” fills the room.

“Since there are too many of you, I will have to make a choice as to who receives this money-free bargain.”

I noticed an elderly couple was paying attention to the spectacle unfolding before their eyes, the old man shaking his head in apparent disgust.

“I tell you what; I will give it to the one of you most willing to obey my rules.”

Again, they looked at one another, an expression of bewilderment on their faces.

The perky young woman asked, “What are the rules?”

I smiled and said, “I don ‘t know. I have not yet defined them. However, it is a free home that I offer you.”

They giggled amongst themselves, the youngest of which said, “What an old coot. He must be crazy to give away his home. Go take your meds, old man.”

I smiled and leaned into the table a bit further. “I am serious, this is a legitimate offer.”

They gaped at me for a moment.

“I’ll take it you old fool. Where are the keys?” boasted the youngest among them.

“Then I presume you accept ALL of my terms then?” I asked.

The elderly couple seemed amused and entertained as they watched from the privacy of their table. “Oh yeah! Where do I sign up?”

I took a napkin and wrote, “I give this man my home, without the burden of financial obligation, so long as he accepts and abides by the terms that I shall set forth upon consummation of this transaction.”

I signed it and handed it to the young man who eagerly scratched out his signature.

“Where are the keys to my new house?” he asked in a mocking tone of voice.

All eyes were upon us as I stepped back from the table, pulling the keys from pocket and dangling them before the excited new homeowner.

“Now that we have entered into this binding contract, witnessed by all of your friends, I have decided upon the conditions you are obligated to adhere to from this point forward. You may only live in the house for one hour a day. You will not use anything inside of the home. You will obey me without question or resistance. I expect complete loyalty and admiration for this gift I bestow upon you. You will accept my commands and wishes with enthusiasm, no matter the nature. Your morals and principles shall be as mine. You will vote as I do, think as I do and do it with blind faith. These are my terms. Here are your keys.” I reached the keys forward and the young man looked at me dumbfounded.

“Are you out of your mind? Who would ever agree to those ridiculous terms?” the young man appeared irritated.

“You did when you signed this contract before reading it, understanding it and with the full knowledge that I would provide my conditions only after you committed to the agreement.”

The elderly man chuckled as his wife tried to restrain him. I was looking at a now silenced and bewildered group of people.

“You can shove that stupid deal up your a** old man. I want no part of it!” exclaimed the now infuriated young man.

‘You have committed to the contract, as witnessed by all of your friends. You cannot get out of the deal unless I agree to it. I do not intend to let you free now that I have you ensnared. I am the power you agreed to. I am the one you blindly and without thought chose to enslave yourself to. In short, I am your Master.”

At this, the table of celebrating individuals became a unified group against the unfairness of the deal.

After a few moments of unrepeatable comments and slurs, I revealed my true intent.

What I did to you is what this administration and congress did to you with the health care legislation. I easily suckered you in and then revealed the real cost of the bargain. Your folly was in the belief that you can have something you did not earn, and for that which you did not earn, you willingly allowed someone else to think for you. Your failure to research, study and inform yourself permitted reason to escape you. You have entered into a trap from which you cannot flee. Your only chance of freedom is if your new Master gives it to you. A freedom that is given can also be taken away. Therefore, it is not freedom at all.”

With that, I tore up the napkin and placed it before the astonished young man. “This is the nature of your new health care legislation.”

I turned away to leave these few in thought and contemplation — and was surprised by applause.

The elderly gentleman, who was clearly entertained, shook my hand enthusiastically and said, “Thank you, Sir. These kids don ‘t understand Liberty .”

He refused to allow me to pay my bill as he said, “You earned this one. It is an honor to pick up the tab.”

I shook his hand in thanks, leaving the restaurant somewhat humbled and sensing a glimmer of hope for my beloved country.

In Germany women were choosing to give birth at German hospitals because of the quality of care other’s had received at military hospitals, despite the possible language barrier. I am sure that most doctors there speak some English, but not all. I took Grayson to a German Pediatric Neurologist after his febrile seizure and she spoke absolutely no English, neither did her nurse. I could understand enough to know that she was telling us there were no abnormalities on his EEG test, but it was a struggle. We had a fabulous Pediatricin on base for a good part of the time we were there which made the long waits in the waiting room worthwhile.

Now that we are back in the states I am hearing numerous complaints about the military hospital here on Fort Hood. They are understaffed, so if you or your child needs to see a specialist you can expect to wait for months. If you need a referral, you will also be waiting for that. Appointments, from what I hear are few and far between. You sit and wait for an hour to be seen only to be rushed back out the door by the doctor. I had a few things I wanted to talk to the doctor about at my last appointment. I sat in the waiting room for over an hour. I was called back first by a nurse who asked general questions about my health and the concerns I was there for. She told me that my appointment was only 15 minutes and they were running behind, so the doctor probably wouldn’t have the time to address everything. That is government healthcare, Obamacare. I asked friends for personal experiences, and I could go on and on here, but I will leave it at this:

Please, whether you are Republican or Democrat, before you jump onto the Obamacare bandwagon, RESEARCH! Nothing in life is free.

Everything that is “free” comes with a cost. I, for one,  do not want the  cost of my healthcare to be the health of myself or my family. Do you?

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We’re Home!


The kids and I have been back in the states for nearly a month now and it has been quite a busy month. I’ll tell you all about our adventures within the next few weeks, but for now I thought I’d show you guys the new house. We absolutely LOVE it here! The boys have been enjoying playing in the back yard as often as they can, and I have been super busy unpacking/organizing/accessorizing/arranging… It still isn’t finished and I have some more things to move around, but it’s getting there.

Greer Blue Bonnets Grayson Bluebonnets

Our gecko housemate. He comes out every warm evening

Our gecko housemate. He comes out every warm evening

Grayson's room

Grayson’s room

Greer's room

Greer’s room

Did I mention I love it here? Double ovens!!

Did I mention I love it here? Double ovens!!

keeping room

Still a work in progress. I have some painting to do on the secretary before I attach the door.

Still a work in progress. I have some painting to do on the secretary before I attach the door.

This is the dining room. I've turned it into a study for now because we don't have a dining room table. Another work in progress.

This is the dining room. I’ve turned it into a study for now because we don’t have a dining room table. Another work in progress.

The entry

The entry

kid's bathroom

kid’s bathroom

I didn’t take any photos of the master bed and bath because I’d be mortified for you to see the state of our bedroom. We still have a few boxes to go through, but we need some shelves in our closet first.

I’m ready to have all of this finished so we can get back to a routine and I can begin blogging more. I’ve missed it!

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Birthday Boy Sous Chef


Grayson wanted pizza for his birthday dinner. Instead of ordering out I thought it would be nice if he helped me make a pizza at home. He was so helpful. After his nap he helped make the dough. Greer even helped out a little bit too.

mixing pizza dough kids making pizza pizza dough showing kids how to knead dough kids spreading sauce on pizza making pizza is fun toddler making pizza time for cheese kids putting cheese on pizza

In the mean time, Greer was digging through the fridge

toddler in the fridge pepperoni time watching cheese bubble homemade (kidmade) pizza birthday cake yummy! 4th birthday

Grayson soaked up all of the compliments on his delicious pizza. I asked Grayson if he wanted to help me make dinner every night and he said “No, Mommy do it.” Oh well, I tried.

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Tie Dye Easter Eggs


Items needed:

  • vinegar
  • paper towels
  • plastic wrap
  • food coloring
  • eggs

Soak paper towel in vinegar, place on plastic wrap, drip food coloring, wrap it, and wait (we waited about 20 minutes and rinsed them off).

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Check out our shaving cream dyed Easter Eggs here.

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FOUR!


No, I’m not golfing. I literally lol’d as I typed the title because, if you know Grayson, you might imagine “Four” being yelled as an alert to let you know he’s headed your way. As if he needs his entrances to be announced. You’ll know he’s coming by the thumping of his feet as he runs on the floor, or his boisterous, booming laughter.

Grayson turns 4

This boy is one of a kind. And he turns 4 today.

He’s hilariously funny. Earlier this week we were all eating dinner at the table and he said “Mommy, look!”. I glanced over and he was cross-eyed with that huge Grayson grin on his face. I laughed so hard I cried. I don’t know where he gets it, but life would be so dull without the bright light that my sweet, silly boy brings to it.

child crossing his eyes

Happy 4th Birthday, Monkey Doo! We are so blessed to have you.

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Moving Day


On the day the movers came we moved everything we wanted to keep out of the way into Greer’s room. It looked like this:

Moving Day Mess

Our suitcases were packed with some cold German weather clothes, but mostly warm Texan weather clothes. The kids toys were scattered around. Sammy shaking on his bed wondering what on earth was happening. Gracie was so freaked out I had her in her cage covered with a blanket. We were all in and out of this room all day. Either John or I was constantly supervising the packers. It was exhausting. At nap time I put the two crib mattresses together and laid down with the boys to try to get them to sleep. I even dozed off for a few minutes, waking to get back to supervisory mode. It was almost time for them to carry all of our belongings down 4 flights of stairs and load them onto the truck.

kitchen living room master bedroom hallway Moving truck

By the end of the day we felt as though we were the ones who had packed and moved all day. 8 crates and nearly 8,000 lbs of our goodies are on their way.

We went out for dinner and a quick trip to the store and we were all asleep by 8 o’clock.

2 Weeks To Go!

 

 

 

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Young Artists


Grayson's painting

Grayson’s landscape (age 4)

Greer's painting

“Under the Sea” by Greer (age 2)

It’s Friday! Another week is coming to an end. On Tuesday we will have two weeks left in Germany. Tomorrow and Sunday we are supposed to get snow. I sure do hope we have one more nice weekend before we go.

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Mixed Emotions


I am so ready to get out of here (sometimes). Maybe its the dreary cold German weather. It could be that all of our things were packed up and shipped away leaving these cold, plain rooms and the empty shell of what once was our comfortable, cozy home. Or it could be the terribly uncomfortable (and hideous) temporary furniture that the Army brought us.

FMO furniture

Or that the boys are so completely bored with the few toys we have here (and even a few small new things) that they are running wild through the house, their voices bellowing and bouncing off every blank wall. And I am running out of ideas to keep them occupied.

FMO fort

We’ve made countless forts out of boxes and furniture. Even those have lost interest now.

It may be that we have a beautiful home just sitting and waiting for us on the other side of the pond.

Texas Home

The minutes and hours seem to be passing by at a snail’s pace. Days seem never-ending. We have 18 days left here….

However, more and more lately I am thinking about how much I am going to miss this beautiful country, the wonderful people we have met, and all of the breathtaking sites we have been fortunate to see and experience.

Three years ago we were a family of three getting ready to leave the first home we owned, the home we brought our first child home to, and the comfort of having family close by, to move to a foreign country. I was so afraid and anxious. After about a month of being here and getting used to it I began to embrace this experience. It was exciting and it has been such an amazing journey.

Our family has now grown to a family of four. John and I have grown here as couple, and living so far from “home” has made us even stronger than we once were. We will return to the states bigger, and better, and we will have more appreciation for the conveniences that come along with living in the states. We will also appreciate everything we have learned about the countries we have visited while in living in Europe: the cultures, the architecture, the history.

When I think about leaving here I either grin ear to ear at what’s to come, or my heart fills with sorrow. Three years ago I never thought I might cry when leaving here. I have no regrets about how we spent our time here, we did as much traveling as we could with 2 small kids, but there is still so much here l want to see. I hope to come back when the kids are older and will remember all of our German adventures. When the day to leave finally gets here, it will be “See ya later, Germany”, not “Good-bye”.

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